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Charisma, Love and Health


This is an amazing story. It's about my friend Robert.Robert is one of those really charismatic people. You knowthe kind I mean. Wherever he goes, people are just drawn tohim, its truly a sight to behold.

At dinner the other night, Robert's charm drew the waitersin and they conversed with him a great deal. However, whenI spoke up, the waiters didn't seem to pay much attention.They may have even been a little dismissive. It was as ifthe only person at the table was Robert. The difference wasRobert's charisma. He has that special way about him that weall sometimes wished we had.

Anyway, in order to find out what that special somethingwas, I decided to interview Robert. I captured about 2hours worth of questions and answers with him.

Here is what I found out. Robert basically, though hemight not say this directly, 'loves' people when he talks tothem.

He has genuine concern and positive regard. He likes tofocus in on one thing that he finds especially interestingabout a person when he talks to them. It doesn't matter ifhe tells the person what that thing is or not, it seems tohave the same effect. Try it and see what happens.

Now, how does that relate to health? Well you see, myarticle on the mind-body connection discusses the principlethat Bernie Siegel wrote about in his book, Love, Medicineand Miracles. It seems that when his cancer patientsrevolutionized their thinking to become more loving andaccepting of others, their cancer often went into remission.

You see, what Robert does with people, is love them when hetalks to them. Keep in mind that love is an action, it isnot an idea that sits there, it is active. Bernie's cancerpatients loved those around them more and as a result theirhealth improved.

Now do you see the connection between charisma, love andhealth? By loving others, not only can your health improve,but your social life improves as well.

So what are you waiting for? Start looking for ways to loveothers more and watch your life improve in every aspect.This could be the most important thing you'll read today.Why not share it with a friend?

This article is for information purposes only. If you haveor think you have a health problem, visit your doctor fordiagnoses and treatment.

Dave Snape is a health, fitness and wellness enthusiast. His website is http://tobeinformed.com


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